Friday, March 8, 2013

pillow talk.

one of my favorite things about marriage - or even just life in general - is pillow talk. 

you know those conversations you have in bed when you spend hours talking about everything/nothing and accidentally stay up way too late? and for some reason the dim lights and soft mattress seem to make divulging your inner most thoughts and feelings a perfectly comfortable thing to do.

i think pillow talk is one of the best things to do to better figure out yourself and get closer to someone. and i feel so lucky to have such a dear husband who doubles as my very best friend that i love spilling my guts to and i'm always so fascinated to hear his opinions and outlook on life. 

something i remember thinking was so strange when we first started dating was how naturally we clicked and how it was so easy to talk to him. it was like he understood me quicker and better than anyone else ever had. sometimes it freaked me out how he just got me...haha at times it was literally like he knew me better than i knew myself. dating and getting to know nicolaus was one of the most scary and wonderful and thrilling times in my life. 

i'm so glad we took the leap into marriage and i got him as my permanent pillow talk buddy :)


  1. Awe this is so cute. I LOVE pillow talk too. Some of the best nights of our lives are spent just laying in bed talking about life. You two are adorable. love this.

  2. So cute! Can't wait meet my future pillow talker.

  3. Lovely

  4. Yes it is funny how pillow talk is so different from day to day conversations. But hard to do this on a weekday when you have to be up at 6:45 in the am for work! Ha ha

    Ali of

  5. I know what you mean! It's my favorite part of the day, cuddling in bed and talking :)

  6. communication is so important in a relationship! lovely post.

  7. I am not married yet, but I love pillow talk with my boyfriend! ;)

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  8. Aww so sweet!

    Radha xoxo

  9. Girl yes! I love just laying and talking to Jason and giggling and being silly or serious together. It is like secret our time that no one else knows about. A entire part of our lives where the world fall away.


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  10. i talk my husband to sleep every night . lol. no even joking :)

  11. Pillow Talk is amazing! I love it <3 :) You are fantastic girl <3

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  13. AWWWW. That was such an awww post.


  14. Great post! I love posts like this that give a peak into people's lives :)

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  15. To marry your best friend is the best thing you can do :)!

  16. i loved this post so much -- it gave me all the warm and fuzzy feelings. my boyfriend and i often trade sleep for long, late-night talks in bed and neither one of us would have it any other way. being in love with your best friend is the most amazing thing anyone can experience, i'm so glad to hear you've found this too since i often sit and think and get all bent out of shape when i realize that some people are not as lucky.

    okay, emotional rant over. lovely blog :)

    lauren @ in between idols.